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A gift is asked. Never required.

MenLiving asks for a monthly gift at the door of the circles contributors carry. It’s an ask, not a requirement — and either way, you’re welcomed in.

What your gift opens

Anyone can join a circle. Contributors carry them all.

  • Gather in these circles, several nights a week
  • Early access to Annual Retreats and Deep Work courses
  • A person welcomes you in — usually within a few hours
Expansion Circle

Go deeper on one topic the facilitator brings, with more room to sit inside a single question than a drop-in allows.

Sage’s Circle

Eldership, mentorship and legacy — for men moving from accumulating to distilling what actually matters.

Mastery Circle

One-off deep dives, often with a guest expert, on a subject worth a whole evening. Scheduled as they come together.

Accountability Circle

A weekly check-in on the goals you’re working, framed by Atomic Habits — for men who follow through when someone’s expecting them.

Caregiver Circle

For anyone caring for someone they love. Learn from a guest expert, share what’s hard, or just sit with people who understand.

In-Person Closed Circle

A committed small group for men who’ve been through open circles. A next step, not a parallel track.

The spaces that go with them

Each of these circles has a matching space in the online community — Sage’s, Caregivers, and Accountability & Goals — where the conversation continues between meetings. The way into a space is the meeting itself: come to a gathering, and the facilitator invites you in afterward — so each space stays the men who actually sit in that circle.

Annual Retreats

Coming soon — contributors get early access when dates open.

Deep Work courses

Coming soon — contributors get early access when enrollment opens.

You get to work on your own life in circles that meet several nights a week, and the same gift keeps every open circle free for the next man who needs a place to land.

Make your gift

Pick a suggested amount or enter your own. Your gift is a monthly commitment you can change or stop any time.

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What your gift funds today

Where the money goes

  • Facilitator training
  • Free circles that stay free
  • Gatherings most days of the week, online and in person
  • The online community and this site

What more gifts make possible

More rooms, more men

  • More circles in more cities
  • Guest experts and new programs
  • Reaching the next man sooner — the walks, the stories, the podcast