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Podcast

If You've Come This Far

with Shaun Emerson & Chris Lozier

a podcast where Shaun and Chris simply aim to have authentic conversations with interesting people about what they do to make life more fulfilling and more impactful.

99 episodes · 5 seasons · since 2021

Episodes by season

19 episodes · Jan 9, 2026Sep 8, 2026

  1. Rob Bronstein…Building Legacy Beyond the Bottom LineExplicit

    Rob Bronstein, Founder and President of The Scion Group, joins Shaun Emerson and Chris Lozier for Episode 99 of If You've Come This Far . Beginning his real estate career on 100% commission in Chicago, Rob launched…

    S5 · E191 hr 17 minPurpose & work

  2. Susan Herrmann...Breaking Free from Dominator CultureExplicit

    Susan Herman, LCSW, is a veteran clinical social worker with over three decades of experience spanning child welfare, residential treatment, military social work, and international healing initiatives in Vietnam. In…

    S5 · E181 hr 4 minBeing a man

  3. Alexandra Friedman...The Lost Art of FriendshipExplicit

    After eighteen years away from the Pacific Northwest, former AWS tech marketer Alexandra "Alex" Friedman returned home to find that professional achievement was no safeguard against profound urban isolation. Confronting…

    S5 · E171 hr 8 minFriendship & loneliness

  4. Mark Ishaug...Lead with Love, Get Stuff DoneExplicit

    Mark Ishaug has spent his career at the forefront of mission-driven advocacy and community healthcare. Before serving as the CEO of Thresholds--one of Illinois's largest and oldest providers of mental health and…

    S5 · E161 hr 21 minPurpose & work

  5. Matthew Quick...Radical Acts of LoveExplicit

    Matthew Quick returns to If You've Come This Far for his second appearance on the show to discuss his new memoir, Dad, Love, Me . In a raw conversation, Matthew opens up about his father’s battle with dementia, his own…

    S5 · E151 hr 8 minFatherhood & parenting

  6. Ron Dresher & Brian Harris...Balancing LifeExplicit

    In this episode of If You've Come This Far , Chris and Shaun sit down with Ron Dresher and Brian Harris, founders of the Los Angeles-based Life Transition Group. Approaching their 80s with the metabolic age and energy…

    S5 · E141 hr 6 minAging & eldership

  7. From the Vault: Fr. Michael Himes on LoveExplicit

    In this "From the Vault" episode, Chris and Shaun are joined by MenLiving co-founder Todd Adams to reflect on the teachings of the late Father Michael Himes, a beloved Notre Dame and Boston College professor whom Chris…

    S5 · E131 hr 4 minLove, sex & partnership

  8. Ed Frauenheim...Reinventing MasculinityExplicit

    In this episode of If You've Come This Far , Chris and Shaun sit down with Ed Frauenheim, an author, journalist, and advocate doing critical work around masculinity and men's health. Ed's career spans from technology…

    S5 · E121 hr 5 minBeing a man

  9. Celine Coggins...Investing in Youth Mental HealthExplicit

    Shaun and Chris connect with Celine Coggins, a lifelong educator, founder of Teach Plus, and the inaugural CEO of The Goodness Web. Celine shares her journey from growing up in a large Irish Catholic family in…

    S5 · E111 hr 8 minGrowing up

  10. Matt Davison...More Empathy in the Mental Health SpaceExplicit

    Chris and Shaun sit down with Matt Davison , the CEO of NAMI Chicago , to explore the intersection of law, advocacy, and radical empathy. Matt shares his transition from serving as a public defender and civil litigator…

    S5 · E101 hr 15 minMental health

  11. Andy Rotherham...Policy Beyond Partisan TeamsExplicit

    In this episode, Chris and Shaun sit down with Andy Rotherham , co-founder of Bellwether Education Partners and a veteran of the Clinton White House. Andy has spent over 30 years at the intersection of education policy…

    S5 · E91 hr 14 minService & community

  12. Katie Fogarty...Aging is LivingExplicit

    Chris and Shaun sit down with Katie Fogarty, a communications expert, "proud crusader" for women in midlife, and the host of the popular podcast A Certain Age . Katie discusses her journey from a religion major at Holy…

    S5 · E81 hr 1 minAging & eldership

  13. Zach Gale...Me to WeExplicit

    Chris and Shaun sit down with Zach Gale, an elementary special education teacher and the founder of Me to We . Zach discusses his journey from a hyper-competitive sports family to finding his purpose in supporting…

    S5 · E71 hr 7 minService & community

  14. Justin Cohen...Dads for AllExplicit

    In this episode, we sit down with author, activist, and education policy expert Justin Cohen to explore the evolving role of fatherhood in the 21st century. Justin shares his personal journey from growing up in a…

    S5 · E61 hr 2 minFatherhood & parenting

  15. Jonathan Mooney...Normal SucksExplicit

    In this episode, we sit down with author and activist Jonathan Mooney to explore the myth of "normalcy." Jonathan shares his personal journey navigating the education system with ADHD and dyslexia and discusses the…

    S5 · E51 hr 6 minGrowing up

  16. Sean Harvey...Dismantling Hate with CompassionExplicit

    Chris and Shaun welcome Sean Harvey , an advisor, consultant, author, and ordained interfaith minister. Sean has dedicated his life to helping men in hyper-masculine systems--ranging from Wall Street to police…

    S5 · E41 hr 4 minService & community

  17. Janice McCabe...Making, Keeping and Losing FriendsExplicit

    In this episode, Shaun and Chris interview Janice McCabe, a sociologist from Dartmouth College and author of "Making, Keeping, and Losing Friends." They discuss making friends in college, the importance of propinquity…

    S5 · E31 hr 1 minFriendship & loneliness

  18. Stacy Waldman Bass...LightkeeperExplicit

    In this episode, the guys talk with acclaimed photographer, Stacy Waldman Bass, about her memoir, Lightkeeper. They explore Stacy's draw to photography, the value of stories and photos to keeping memories alive, the…

    S5 · E21 hr 23 minGrief, loss & resilience

  19. Jim Maley...Sharing SelfishlyExplicit

    In this episode, Chris and Shaun talk with Jim Maley, teacher and founder of the Maley Way. The guys discuss Jim's struggles with depression, his time as a Northwestern hoop player, enrolling at Holy Cross, screening…

    S5 · E11 hr 11 minService & community

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of men say they have no close friends — five times more than in 1990. Survey Center on American Life, 2021