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What you’re living through

Divorce & Separation Circle

Support for men going through divorce or separation — the unraveling, and who you become on the other side.

FreeEvery week

A MenLiving gathering

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Free, always. No profile fee, no trial, nothing to cancel.

Who this circle is for

Men going through a separation or a divorce, at any stage of it — the ones still deciding, the ones in the middle of it, and the ones a year out and still not themselves.

What a gathering is like

Men who are in it, or have been, talking honestly about the unravelling and about who they are turning into. No legal advice, no strategy, and nobody telling you what you should have done. This circle is free, deliberately: the men hardest to reach are the least likely to pay to find out whether it is for them.

What you don’t have to do

  • You don’t have to talk. Listening is participation, and plenty of men listen the first few times.
  • You don’t have to fix anyone. Nobody will try to fix you either — that is the agreement, said out loud at the start.
  • You don’t have to have a story ready. Men speak from their own experience, and “I don’t know yet” is an experience.
  • You don’t have to keep coming. Men come once, or for a season, or for years. Coming three times and moving on is the model working.
  • You don’t have to explain why you came. Nobody will ask, and nobody will follow up afterwards.

Same agreements everywhere. What changes is the room.

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Ready when you are

Most are free, most weeks of the year. You can listen the whole time and nobody will ask you why.

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Keep the door open for the men who need it

Connection should stay within reach.

Most circles are free because donors pay for them. Your gift funds facilitator training and keeps the open door open for the men who need it most.

4 in 5
U.S. suicide deaths are men — a rate nearly four times higher than women’s. CDC, 2023
15%
of men say they have no close friends — five times more than in 1990. Survey Center on American Life, 2021