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ML 101 Circle

Thirty minutes for first-timers. What a men’s circle actually is, what’s expected of you, and what isn’t.

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A MenLiving gathering

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In MenLiving’s own words

New to MenLiving? These 30-minute gatherings are built for first-timers and newer men. In these meetings men will do a quick check-in to connect with other guys just starting out, and get oriented to all the different ways you can engage in the MenLiving community.

Who this circle is for

Men who are new to MenLiving and would like an introduction before attending other circles.

What a gathering is like

Start with a brief check-in, then learn about the community, the different circles, and how to take part. There is time to ask questions.

What you don’t have to do

  • You don’t have to talk. Listening is participation, and plenty of men listen the first few times.
  • You don’t have to fix anyone. Nobody will try to fix you either — that is the agreement, said out loud at the start.
  • You don’t have to have a story ready. Men speak from their own experience, and “I don’t know yet” is an experience.
  • You don’t have to commit to returning. Try a gathering and decide whether you’d like to attend again.
  • You choose what to share about yourself and why you came.

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Ready when you are

Most circles are free. Find a date that works for you, and take part by listening or sharing.

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